Somewhere along the way, anxiety learned to do something useful
for you — keep you alert, keep you sharp, keep you ahead of the
risk. It worked. So it stayed. And it kept working long past the
point where the cost stopped being worth it.
That's why the usual "calm down" tools only get you so far. You
can't talk a protector out of protecting. You have to give it a
new job — or build something more trustworthy underneath, so it
can finally rest.
The work here is both. The practical regulation that calms the
system today. And the deeper work that lets you stop being run
by it.